Triple Split Definition means that there are three separate areas of definition, disconnected from each other, within the chart. No single bridging channel, gate or person brings them the same sense of wholeness, and because there are multiple ways that their centers can be brought together, Triple Splits need variety. When Triple Splits are with one person who is bridging them in the same way all the time, Triple Splits feel limited or even trapped. Triple Splits need a lot of varying energy around them, and because of this they are actually more suited to open relationships, but Triple Splits can be jealous partners and might prefer a relationship that is open for them, but not for their partner. There is an inner conflict for Triple Splits- they know that they need to be around different people, but they receive programming from society about needing to be monogamous or to find their soulmate, and will tell themselves that if they just found the right person they would not feel trapped or boxed in. Triple Splits can go through relationships with one foot out the door, convinced that someone better will come along but feeling a need to be with someone in the meantime. Triple Splits can seem self-serving and dubious to those who try to pin them down or demand their devotion, but Triple Splits are not coming from a place of manipulation or narcissism. They are simply trying to balance their inner conflict of caring for the people that they love and also feeling an ever present need to explore other energies.
What Triple Splits need is to sample energy, and they get this stimulation through being out in the public aura, in places like shopping malls, bars, nightclubs or neighborhood centers where there is lots of different energy flowing that is not necessarily focused on them. Triple Splits can also be attracted to strip clubs or to stripping themselves, because it allows them to experience a lot of different energies on a surface level, one that is controlled to be limited and for short periods. Triple Splits can also be attracted to communal living or public workplaces, where they are around many different people every day.
Triple Splits in relationships need, at the very least, a variety of social activities. When Triple Splits are in relationships they can do well when they find clubs, organizations, classes or group activities that they can do with their partner. It is often only in social or group settings that a Triple Split can see their partner clearly, while hearing them speak to others or interacting with others they can get a view of them without feeling the pressure or limitation that they do when they are alone with them. It is also common that Triple Splits will argue or fight with loved ones in public settings. When a Triple Split is in relationship or a close friendship they feel boxed in or confined by a person who bridges them the same way every day. When they get out in public, they feel relief from this and a sense of freedom & flow. While they are experiencing this, when their partner then brings that same bridging energy to them, they can become angry and lose their temper because they are finally feeling relief from the pressure a close relationship causes them. Triple Splits try to keep their relationships separated or compartmentalized, setting up different groups of people to interact with so that they get a range of ways to be bridged.
Triple Splits that are aware of their need for movement can set boundaries for themselves, and recognize that what they need is variety, not the perfect partner, to feel healthy and happy.